11 Signs He’s Cheating on You


Had to hear Aaaa-lot after “10 sign’s She’s cheating on You” – Don’t tell me you didn’t read it.

After being called an anti-feminist, I had to take measures; So here It is for all you gorgeous out there 😉 Kudos.

IS HE A CHEATER?

As I’ve said earlier there is no such thing as a “perfect relationship”.Studies reveal that 50 to 60 % of men engage in affairs, hanky-panky, illicit meetings 😉 at one time or another during their relations.

Be the “Nancy Drew” in your relationship if you suspect your man of cheating.Had sneaking suspicions? Daunting Doubts? If you’ve watched any “Maury” at all, you’ve seen enough stories to know that the woman asking for a lie detector test already has more than enough information to suspect her guy of cheating/leading a double life/dressing as a clown.

Do you have to go to the extreme of hooking up your ‘honey bunny’ to a machine? Heck no! If you are a smart, capable and intelligent woman/girl, you already have all the tools you need to sniff out the truth.

All you have to do is open your eyes to the following signs:

  • Number 11

He has ‘Cheated’ Before :

I always say: “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” If he’s done it before, he’s definitely capable of doing it again. It has nothing to do with you, which is why you can’t say that he cheated on his previous lover because she didn’t keep him happy. Cheating is a self-serving act in which the cheater doesn’t take his significant other into consideration. If someone is upfront with you that he’s made mistakes in the past, maybe give them a chance — but make it a long probationary period before you let your guard down.

  • Number 10

 The hunted becomes the ‘Hunter’ :

This is a classic technique that: deflect guilt by accusing someone else. Some of the higher level of the man animal employs this technique. Why defend yourself if you can make someone else feel guilty? The trick is to not deviate from what the original discussion/argument/Battle-Royal was all about. He will employ all the tricks at his disposal to deflect you. Remaining focused is the key; no matter what he tries.

  • Number 9

Black becomes White :

A sure sign of a problem is when your man was a talker and then turns into a deaf-mute (or vice-versa). This is one of the very important signs to look for. Only the truly insane can carry on a double life. Normal people (even cheating men); find it difficult to lie on demand. So, instead of telling you about his day (like he used to do), he clams up for fear of revealing too much. The guy who never said anything suddenly starts giving up all sorts of information to “screen” his other activities. Beware any sudden or inexplicable shift in your man’s personality.

  • Number 8

He’s an Excellent Liar :

If you catch him in a lie, your trust will naturally be damaged. Don’t hold a grudge — forgiveness is a good thing. “You can forgive, but don’t forget”. If he consistently breaches your trust, it’s establishing a pattern of behavior that leads to cheating. Do yourself a favor: If he keeps lying, whether these lies are big or small, get out while you can and don’t let him talk his way back in.

  • Number 7

Your future looks Hazy :

He used to talk about future plans with you. He suddenly stops. Why? It’s because he doesn’t see you as part of HIS future. If you can’t answer, “where do you see us in 6 months?” it’s because he doesn’t see the “us” in six months.

  • Number 6

They call me Mr. Clean!

Guys are creatures of habit. Ladies, you don’t have to see the lipstick, or smell the perfume. Guys don’t like to change the soap that they normally use; they don’t like to use a different deodorant than the one they have been using since they first got chest hair. Guys don’t like to use to cologne if they didn’t before. So, if your guy changes his grooming routine, it’s because he’s trying to throw off the scent of any possible pursuit. No wonder men are referred as “dogsunfaithful ones” !!

  • Number 5

He’s Pulling Houdini’s :

If he’s disappearing, traveling, or unavailable to the point where you are starting to wonder, then he could be cheating. When ever you need him he vanishes from the face of the earth like literally. It’s time you activate your detective side because it’s tough to synch up schedules, especially in secret. 😉

  • Number 4

He is being less Passionate and Affectionate :

Even though relationships ebb and flow naturally, if you’re sensing that he’s drawing away from you, then there may be someone else. Emotional disconnect should be investigated regardless of whether it’s caused by cheating. There’s a problem if he’s not laughing or seeming as passionate as usual. It’s hard to spread love/passion between two people, so the person who used to have it will feel it slipping away if it’s being given to someone else.

  • Number 3

His cell phone habits have changed :

In a perfect world, we’d be open about sharing our correspondence with our significant others. Most of the time, we trust that we don’t have to worry about who is texting or calling them. But, if you notice that he is getting protective and/or nervous when he gets calls or texts, it may be cause for alarm. Suddenly gets a new phone with a password lock. Or perhaps now he keeps his cell phone in his pocket when in the past he would leave it on the counter. Beware.

  • Number 2

Decrease in Making-Love :

Unless he’s Superman, he can only makes so much love. So, if he’s getting it from another source, you might notice. It’s another woman — even if he’s not cheating — a decrease in making love signals serious issues in the relationship.

  • Number 1

If you’re reading this, it may already be too late…

The best judge of if your man is cheating is ‘YOU’. You can look for signs, but there are some men that are very clever. Like a ninja, they leave no trace. You have to trust your judgment when dealing with anyone, even someone you care about. A relationship between two adults should be based on trust. If you can’t trust your man, the relationship is dead; it just hasn’t been buried yet. If you are looking for signs, it’s because you already know but want some confirmation.
*Unless, of course, you’re the crazy, jealous girlfriend type and no matter what, you think your man is cheating on you. In that case, you need therapy sweet heart.*

Disclaimer :  Apply On Your “OWN RISK”

When you get suspicious that your significant other is cheating, be careful not to appear to be paranoid. You have to walk a fine line — you don’t want to make false accusations.

So, while I shared this list of cheating red flags, I concede that it’s a tricky situation. It’s hard to be sure if someone’s cheating, but protect yourself: Be vigilant, and pay attention to your mind and spirit within the relationship. But, at the same time, be careful not to let anxiety lead the way because unnecessary paranoia will just drive your lover away.

If you invade his privacy, this may ruin the relationship, especially if it turns out he wasn’t cheating because it’ll prove to him that you don’t trust him at all.

And if it’s confirmed he is cheating on you – then stay tuned because coming up next is : “How to Get Over a Cheating Boyfriend” . I know I can be cruel at times 😉

Give out your comments, any point you think I missed, all the hate speech to be directed only to -> me. In the comment section below 😉

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Response we got On “10 sign She’s cheating on You”


Well its always good to be criticized upon, but this time i was sectioned to be an anti feminist 😛 .

If you haven’t read 10 sign’s She’s cheating on You. Read here
–> https://spicedupcrap.wordpress.com/2012/07/31/10-signs-shes-cheating-on-you/

In the last two days came across some very unique comments and i thought why not share them with you guys. May be you’ll have something more to say 😀

  • ” its going to lead some dumbass believe it and he’ll wreck it up with his girl “
  • ” according to your article… im cheating on 99% of my best friends “
  • ” the awkward moment when you ex cheated on you and you find this list and she ticked 9 of the boxes… “
  • ” do you have a girl ? how do you know all this ? “
  • ” she cheated on you , didn’t she ? “
  • ” Love life is a history with many chapters that we cant leave long enough to cover the whole of it. so if she cheats on me she can’t cheat to her creator also I believe there is a solution for every challenge in life “
😀 And I am so not an anti-feminist 😀
I’d Love to read your feedback, Do comment below 😉
and give your girl a kiss from my side too 😉

10 Signs She’s Cheating On You


“What irritated me most in that entire situation was the fact that I
wasn’t feeling humiliated, or annoyed, or even fooled. Betrayal was
what I felt, my heart broken not just by a girl I was in love with, but
also by, as I once believed, a true friend.”

Have you ever been through this? Will this happen to you too? Or may be you’re being Cheated on while you read this? – Lets Hope not.

According to the Great Female Survey 2012 , over 30% of women indicated that they would be tempted to cheat if their partner doesn’t find out. O_o

It’s sad but it’s a reality, there is no such thing as a “perfect relationship”. You might love her like anything i the whole wide world and she might be doing the same in front of you, there is always the other side of the coin; “she could be cheating on you”. So, although things seem to be going smooth there always is a chance of betrayal.

How to know whether she is cheating on you or not ? Listed below are some of the signs you might be missing all the time. Its not necessary each sign should imply to her but they can be a clear Warning that your girl is headed the wrong road.

  • Number 10

She Detaches herself from your Family :

The fact that she doesn’t spend time with your family and friend. Avoids family’s function and social gathering of your friend is a sign that she guilty about something and can’t face people in your social circle. To avoid the constant feeling of guilt of cheating she avoids immersing herself in your circles.

  • Number 9

She Nags you Incessantly :

Every sentiment you express sets her off and she finds any excuse to lash out at you. So if she’s habitually pointing out your flaws you might wanna get down to what she’s up-to and whom she’s up-to with 😉

  • Number 8

She has a Mysterious Friend :

A telltale sign is when a mysterious person becomes part of your picture. It can be just a friend, a coworker or any person about whom she is hesitant to share details. And believe me it doesn’t take a Ph.D. to figure out why.

  • Number 7

She deflects simple questions :

When she starts avoiding your simplest of questions and constantly tries to lash back with counter questions, it simply indicated she’s searching for lies. When she starts hiding the details she used to voluntarily tell, be sure she is hiding something or “someone”.

  • Number 6

She shifts Priorities away from YOU :

If she is cheating on you, you’ll definitely feel a shift in her daily priorities. From no where she’ll have unscheduled meetings, work or chores to do. Her hot and heavy romance being served in someone else plate and you being left out a little too much. Be sure, its the most definite sign.

  • Number 5

She puts more effort into Looking Sexy :

You love her and may accept her the way she is, but that won’t stop her from trying to dazzle her new fling 😉
Just as you impressed each other at the start of your relationship, she’ll try to impress her new guy with the new sizzling, sexy style, makeup and physical appearance. Looking desirable is one thing but not caring about your opinion that’s “serious”.

  • Number 4

She becomes Autonomous :

The most common of she cheating on you is she suddenly becoming more autonomous. Dropping the “we” from her vocabulary and favoring “I”. Conducting herself in a way that she doesn’t need you to hold her hand. Simply she wants you out of the picture.

  • Number 3

She has No interest in Making Love with You :

When your relationship was new, both of you were passionate about spontaneous lovemaking. Now it’s all a bit iffy, whereby you’re rarely hitting the sheets and you’re only doing so if and when feels like it. So, if she is not satisfied by your performance, maybe someone else is performing the right way.

  • Number 2

She’s Secretive about her Schedule :

She may show that she doesn’t have time to spend with you, yet she is idle all the time. And you’re the last person to know about her whereabouts and she insists on keeping her so called “busy schedule” secret clearly means she’s not just forgetting you but rather leaving you out.

  • Number 1

You become ‘Irrelevant’ :

What possibly could be worse than a girlfriend who nags you for everything? How about one who stops noticing that you’re even alive? She doesn’t care if you don’t want to go out with her, she’ll instantly find someone else to go with. She doesn’t give importance to your thinking as she once did, especially on things that direct affect your relationship.

Keep Jealousy In Check

Don’t deduce yourself into thinking that your girl would never cheat and don’t rust to judgement either; is she is cheating on you, there might be chances for you to save your relationship. Think rationally and address the problem adequately. Don’t let a bad case of jealousy taint your perception of her; get your facts right before confronting her.

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