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A Very Good Conclusion To A ‘Sunni-Shia’ Debate


So today I decided to read a 1.6K+ comments long Sunni-Shia debate on Khurram Zaki’s wall instead of reading what I just started reading today: Kiran Desai’s ‘The Inheritance of Loss’, and I don’t regret it but I do have few things to say before jotting down my conclusion on that very debate.

Few things that I was indoctrinated with in my childhood:
1) Shias killed Imam Hussein,
2) Shias have their own Quran,
3) Shias pray only two times a day,
4) Shias practice incest,
5) You can eat in one plate with a Christian but with a Shia? No way!
And other stupid stuff.

Took me years to get rid of this indoctrination. How? I was blessed enough to study in a boarding school where Sunnis, Shias, Ahmadi, all shared one common hall of prayers. And I was blessed enough not only to read ‘5’ prayers standing next to Shias but also learn about their school of thought directly from them. Believe me or not, I don’t give a duck, but yeah I’ve seen them read the same Quran and offer prayers 5 times a day. And although I didn’t get a chance to share a plate, mess manners they call it, but we did eat together for 5 odd years. Why am I telling you all this? B/c very very few are blessed enough to see the truth for themselves. The remainder keeps the hatred preserved until it is transferred down to the next generation, and in some cases this hatred is mobilised in the wrong direction by the wrong people for the wrong reasons? Result? Hazara killings, Parachinar blasts, etc (etc being stuff the we can’t recall, shame on us!)

My conclusion: Most Sunnis lack reasoning and as a consequence easily get frustrated leading to either verbal or physical abuse.

Once a lady, which I consider my wee sister although she is elder in age, asked me: “Nauman, are you a Shia?”
I never replied but now I feel like, and here’s my reply: “For me, in the words of Carl Sagan, every human is precious, because not in a billion, lets say trillion, galaxies would I find another. And Salman Rushdie is no exception. I make no exceptions!”

Nauman Umair

Women Who Inspire – Sohaila Abdulali


“After being raped, I was wounded; My honour was not: Sohaila Abdulali

“When I fought to live that night, I hardly knew what I was fighting for. A male friend and I had gone for a walk up a mountain near my home. Four armed men caught us and made us climb to a secluded spot, where they raped me for several hours, and beat both of us. They argued among themselves about whether or not to kill us, and finally let us go.

At 17, I was just a child. Life rewarded me richly for surviving. I stumbled home, wounded and traumatized, to a fabulous family. With them on my side, so much came my way. I found true love. I wrote books. I saw a kangaroo in the wild. I caught buses and missed trains. I had a shining child. The century changed. My first gray hair appeared.

Too many others will never experience that. They will not see that it gets better, that the day comes when one incident is no longer the central focus of your life. One day you find you are no longer looking behind you, expecting every group of men to attack. One day you wind a scarf around your throat without having a flashback to being choked. One day you are not frightened anymore.

Rape is horrible. But it is not horrible for all the reasons that have been drilled into the heads of Indian women. It is horrible because you are violated, you are scared, someone else takes control of your body and hurts you in the most intimate way. It is not horrible because you lose your “virtue.” It is not horrible because your father and your brother are dishonored. I reject the notion that my virtue is located in my vagina, just as I reject the notion that men’s brains are in their genitals.

If we take honor out of the equation, rape will still be horrible, but it will be a personal, and not a societal, horror. We will be able to give women who have been assaulted what they truly need: not a load of rubbish about how they should feel guilty or ashamed, but empathy for going through a terrible trauma.

The week after I was attacked, I heard the story of a woman who was raped in a nearby suburb. She came home, went into the kitchen, set herself on fire and died. The person who told me the story was full of admiration for her selflessness in preserving her husband’s honor. Thanks to my parents, I never did understand this.

The law has to provide real penalties for rapists and protection for victims, but only families and communities can provide this empathy and support. How will a teenager participate in the prosecution of her rapist if her family isn’t behind her? How will a wife charge her assailant if her husband thinks the attack was more of an affront to him than a violation of her?

At 17, I thought the scariest thing that could happen in my life was being hurt and humiliated in such a painful way. At 49, I know I was wrong: the scariest thing is imagining my 11-year-old child being hurt and humiliated. Not because of my family’s honor, but because she trusts the world and it is infinitely painful to think of her losing that trust. When I look back, it is not the 17-year-old me I want to comfort, but my parents. They had the job of picking up the pieces.

This is where our work lies, with those of us who are raising the next generation. It lies in teaching our sons and daughters to become liberated, respectful adults who know that men who hurt women are making a choice, and will be punished.

When I was 17, I could not have imagined thousands of people marching against rape in India, as we have seen these past few weeks. And yet there is still work to be done. We have spent generations constructing elaborate systems of patriarchy, caste and social and sexual inequality that allow abuse to flourish. But rape is not inevitable, like the weather. We need to shelve all the gibberish about honor and virtue and did-she-lead-him-on and could-he-help-himself. We need to put responsibility where it lies: on men who violate women, and on all of us who let them get away with it while we point accusing fingers at their victims.”

– Sohaila Abdulali.”

Pakistan Today


With the recent twist and turns of events inside Pakistan, the following scenarios have lined up today:-

  • Tahir Ul Qadri’s long march has reached Islamabad and claims to dissolve Provincial and National Assemblies have been made.
  • Governor rule in Quetta has been imposed due to the recent attacks on Hazara Community and the “Don’t care” attitude of the CM.
  • Tehreek-e-Insaaf leader Imran Khan has put forward his 7-points to be acted upon as soon as possible.
  • Pakistan turmoil deepest as Supreme court orders to arrest the Prime Minister and his secretaries involved in the rental power case
  • India has become rigid over the control-line issue. It has even banned Pakistan Hockey players to participate in their league. Visa on border to elder citizens has also been delayed till further notice. 
  • The President of Pakistan, Asif Ali Zardari has summoned a joint political session of allied parties to assess the current situation. 
  • Stock index 100 of Karachi Stock Market crashes by 500 points making the dollar worth Rs. 99

With these turn of events happening in just one week, if you are a Pakistani then I would suggest that you get a pack of popcorns and glue yourself to your favourite NEWS channel. Change is coming! It’s coming in fast.

A letter : Have Mercy on us Altaf bhai


Altaf Hussain's Poitical DroneDear Mr Altaf Hussain (aka Altaf bhai),


I hope this post finds you in best of your health. I thought unlike millions of ordinary Pakistani who hate you, your singing skills and of course mafia like control of Karachi city from core of their hearts – I should actually try doing something constructive.

Please here find a small Pakistan 101 lesson for yourself. For your convenience I have decided to go in a numbered list format, since that is proven to be much more effective and even easier to remember in future:

  • Pakistan and India gained independence in 1947 from United Kingdom.
  • Both the countries were granted this freedom under the status of Dominion.
  • Dominion means that whoever held the crown in London was to be taken as Sovereign of the new formed political territories.
  • All the citizens of the Pakistan and India were Indian Citizens before that, who technically paid their allegiance to the British Crown.
  • India by formulating a Constitution left the Dominion status in 1950, whereas Pakistan in 1956.
  • Therefore again “technically” before 1950 every Indian was paying allegiance to the British Crown and every Pakistani till 1956.

Now as per your point about Muhammad Ali Jinnah’s allegiance to the British Crown, my dear Bhai that was really nothing as you are trying to imply. If seriously this was your “Political Drone” you were talking about and this is what you thought is some highly intellectual discourse you wanted to stir – I really cannot understand the people who follow you at all!

Given that we allow people like you to control a megapolis thousands of miles away and other pedigree politicians run the country as if it is their fiefdom says a lot about what is wrong with Pakistan.

Please have mercy on the people Bhai, and just enjoy those Kebabs from the Sulamaneh Restaurant on the Edgware Road (can’t recommend it high enough).

If you have no clue what this is all about read :

Altaf Hussain says: Quaid-e-Azam took oath of allegiance to King George VI

Why do women cry so easily?


A little boy asked his mother, “Why are you crying?” “Because I need to” she said. “I don’t understand,” the boy said. His Mom just hugged him and said, “And you never will.”Later the little boy asked his father, “Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?””All women cry for no reason,” his dad answered carelessly.

The little boy, still wondering why women cry, finally asked the oldwise Shaykh (his Islamic Teacher).”He surely knows the answer”, he thought.”Ya Shaykh! Why do women cry so easily?”The wise teacher replied,”When Allah made the woman she had to be made so special. He made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. He gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that comes from her children. He gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going whenever everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. He gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances,even when her child hurts her very badly. He gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his-rib to protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him un falteringly.

And lastly, He gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation,it ’s hers.You see my son, the beauty of woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart – the place where love resides.”The little boy found the answer and never asked the same question again.

I am no more “Human”


Ramadan is a month of Blessing, According to the Holy Quran, the doors of hell are closed, and Satan is put behind bars. Then why is the world in a state of anarchy ? why is ‘peace’ no where to be found? why is it so? The so-called “evil” is still on the loose?

Satan is captured, but the little satan resides in each and every one of us. And with its full strength, he is active, let it be the Killing of Shias, the Persecution of Ahmadis, the forced conversions of Hindu minority, the Christian community accused of blasphemy, or target killings, murder, rape, every social evil that you can possibly think of, i actually witnessed it in the last month. The situation has come to this point, that one Muslim puts an allegation on the other, that he is not a practicing Muslim.

My question today is “Is it you who is to judge whether a man is a practicing Muslim or not ? Whether a man has the right to live or not ?”

Isn’t that something for God to decide? There is a reason why there is an after life, why we have a believe on judgement day. then why don’t you let God Judge, when the time comes?

Muslim being killed in Burma, is wrong. What about all those innocents murdered in the streets of Karachi, Gilgit, Quetta, Peshawar?
Are they any less of Muslim than the Burmese?

Is God just for Muslims? Was Prophet(PBUH) sent just for the Muslims ? If not, than why hatred towards humanity?
Forget the religion i follow, forget my color, forget my cast, forget my background, can’t i be not treated as just a human? As just a creation of God.

God made us? right. We are his perfect creation? When HE doesn’t discriminates, why do we?
If for HIM, our creator, each and every one us is equal. than who are we to differentiate? Disgrace the other on basis of ethnicity,color,creed,etc.

Cannibals, never used to do what we are doing to other humans. They killed to prey, and we…. we kill just for the sake of fun, or maybe we are bored much.

Believe on me, it’s very easy to comment on Facebook, tweet about it, but is very hard to actually go through it in reality. Ask the mother, who lost her only child in this sectarian violence. Ask those orphans, whom parents went to the market, to get clothes for them, and never came back. Ask those laborers who, when step out don’t know will they see their family again or not? Ask that father who is burying his own son.

A soldier dies doing his duty is a “martyr” while an ordinary man dies doing his duty, no one gives a damn about it. Death of an ordinary man or a puny insect, no difference.

For many of us Ramadan is over, for some one day remains, than Satan would be out, and with his kind help and support, we’ll take Evil to another level. Flush moral ethics down the drain, who needs them? When we have T.V anchors to discuss all day, when we have the government to curse, in fact everyone else to curse except ourselves.

Summing it all up, we are ‘not Humans’ anymore, being a Muslim, Hindu, Jew, Atheist comes later.

Science for the Ummah


Recently an enterprising Pakistani engineer claimed to have invented a car that is powered by water.

Excited by the news, Pakistan’s, nay, the whole Muslim ummah (and some North Korean’s) favourite scientist, Dr. Qadeem Khan, endorsed the invention and demanded that the automobile be called ‘Islamic car.’

Of course, there was the usual whining from liberal fascists/scum/extremists who ridiculed the glorious invention as a product of ‘pseudo-science’ and technical quackery.

But we all know how these elements want the Muslim ummah to continue being subjugated, dominated and exploited by Western secular Judeo-Christian science.

Little do they know that ever since the reign of the great caliph, General Ziaulul Haq, the Islamic Republic of Pakistan is leading the way in the development, growth and potential dominance of ‘Islamic Science.’

No, this has nothing to do with those ancient Muslim philosophers, astronomers and chemists who were just too influenced by the science and scholarship of ancient wine-drinking Greek idolaters.

This is about the real Islamic Science and it has already managed to stun the jealous secular Western Judeo-Christian world with a number of some stunning inventions. In theory at least.

Here are some of them …

The Al-Car

Since car hoti hai (it’s a she), the Al-Car cannot be taken out on the road without a cover. Drivers are required to use their instincts to navigate and if they are pious, angels are likely to help them in this regard. Read More …..