“What irritated me most in that entire situation was the fact that I
wasn’t feeling humiliated, or annoyed, or even fooled. Betrayal was
what I felt, my heart broken not just by a girl I was in love with, but
also by, as I once believed, a true friend.”
Have you ever been through this? Will this happen to you too? Or may be you’re being Cheated on while you read this? – Lets Hope not.
According to the Great Female Survey 2012 , over 30% of women indicated that they would be tempted to cheat if their partner doesn’t find out.
It’s sad but it’s a reality, there is no such thing as a “perfect relationship”. You might love her like anything i the whole wide world and she might be doing the same in front of you, there is always the other side of the coin; “she could be cheating on you”. So, although things seem to be going smooth there always is a chance of betrayal.
How to know whether she is cheating on you or not ? Listed below are some of the signs you might be missing all the time. Its not necessary each sign should imply to her but they can be a clear Warning that your girl is headed the wrong road.
- Number 10
She Detaches herself from your Family :
The fact that she doesn’t spend time with your family and friend. Avoids family’s function and social gathering of your friend is a sign that she guilty about something and can’t face people in your social circle. To avoid the constant feeling of guilt of cheating she avoids immersing herself in your circles.
- Number 9
She Nags you Incessantly :
Every sentiment you express sets her off and she finds any excuse to lash out at you. So if she’s habitually pointing out your flaws you might wanna get down to what she’s up-to and whom she’s up-to with 😉
- Number 8
She has a Mysterious Friend :
A telltale sign is when a mysterious person becomes part of your picture. It can be just a friend, a coworker or any person about whom she is hesitant to share details. And believe me it doesn’t take a Ph.D. to figure out why.
- Number 7
She deflects simple questions :
When she starts avoiding your simplest of questions and constantly tries to lash back with counter questions, it simply indicated she’s searching for lies. When she starts hiding the details she used to voluntarily tell, be sure she is hiding something or “someone”.
- Number 6
She shifts Priorities away from YOU :
If she is cheating on you, you’ll definitely feel a shift in her daily priorities. From no where she’ll have unscheduled meetings, work or chores to do. Her hot and heavy romance being served in someone else plate and you being left out a little too much. Be sure, its the most definite sign.
- Number 5
She puts more effort into Looking Sexy :
You love her and may accept her the way she is, but that won’t stop her from trying to dazzle her new fling 😉
Just as you impressed each other at the start of your relationship, she’ll try to impress her new guy with the new sizzling, sexy style, makeup and physical appearance. Looking desirable is one thing but not caring about your opinion that’s “serious”.
- Number 4
She becomes Autonomous :
The most common of she cheating on you is she suddenly becoming more autonomous. Dropping the “we” from her vocabulary and favoring “I”. Conducting herself in a way that she doesn’t need you to hold her hand. Simply she wants you out of the picture.
- Number 3
She has No interest in Making Love with You :
When your relationship was new, both of you were passionate about spontaneous lovemaking. Now it’s all a bit iffy, whereby you’re rarely hitting the sheets and you’re only doing so if and when feels like it. So, if she is not satisfied by your performance, maybe someone else is performing the right way.
- Number 2
She’s Secretive about her Schedule :
She may show that she doesn’t have time to spend with you, yet she is idle all the time. And you’re the last person to know about her whereabouts and she insists on keeping her so called “busy schedule” secret clearly means she’s not just forgetting you but rather leaving you out.
- Number 1
You become ‘Irrelevant’ :
What possibly could be worse than a girlfriend who nags you for everything? How about one who stops noticing that you’re even alive? She doesn’t care if you don’t want to go out with her, she’ll instantly find someone else to go with. She doesn’t give importance to your thinking as she once did, especially on things that direct affect your relationship.
Keep Jealousy In Check
Don’t deduce yourself into thinking that your girl would never cheat and don’t rust to judgement either; is she is cheating on you, there might be chances for you to save your relationship. Think rationally and address the problem adequately. Don’t let a bad case of jealousy taint your perception of her; get your facts right before confronting her.
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